I rly need some advice. Last night i got in a fight with my mom again, when i called her out on the abuse she automatically thinks im going to call the cops on her bc me trying to explain how she treats me is abuse is me trying to ruin her life to her. Im 19 and i have a hard time finding a job or movin out bc of my parents. she threatened to hurt me but she apologized later for it but rn no one in my family will talk to me. I have no where to go and they know this so i get threats of

Of being kicked out. She denies everything she ever done is wrong and says she gets mad at me bc of my “attitude”. I dont know what to do im sick of this and my bf cant help and asks me to be docile until he can move me out but its been a yr since he started saying that. Im just so overwhelmed and im just tired of it. One solution might be next…

my emotionally abusive mother has no friends and she has taken me out of college and is forcing me to live at home all of fall and spring semester and its driving me insane because i just had my first freshman year of freedom and now I’m being locked back in this cage again

I am so sorry, anon. Do you have any way to get away? A car? Someone you can live with for a few weeks while you find a job? You can also look into abuse and homeless shelters in your area, and also look for loans and college tuition help so you can go without your mother’s permission.

my mother isn’t the best person out there, she’s extremely emotionally abusive. Its weird because she can go a couple days without being abusive but then a switch flips and she goes absolutely crazy. Ive expressed to her that i have an eating disorder and she literally doesn’t care. I was sexually assaulted and she bring that up in every argument as a trump card and it leaves me feeling worse. She’s hit me a few times and she calls me a whore and digs through my stuff and trash :/

I am so sorry, anon. All of that you describe to me is abuse, and you don’t deserve that. Please remember that your mother abusing you is not your fault, and not the result of something you did, it is the result of your mother choosing to (or being unable to stop) abuse use. Try to contact your friends and sympathetic relatives and see if any of them might be able to help you with…